YOU INITIATE THE ARGUMENT:
When a person rejects love and affection in life they always keep looking for ways to argue with the person they are in a relationship with. It all happens because they are not sure about what to do, and they fear committing to the person.
You don’t feel comfortable expressing yourself and don’t feel like anyone should enter your personal space as they won’t understand you.
A person who is not ready to commit to someone or fears to be in a relationship is not available emotionally in a relationship or is emotionally distant from their partner or from people in general because they fear or they get anxious because they feel that people will judge them or they won’t understand the way they are.
They fear that they won’t be accepted as they are so they try not to indulge with someone at an emotional level.
YOU START TO LIMIT YOUR OPTIONS:
There are billions of people in the world but you still feel that no one is there for you because you don’t want to come out of your comfort zone. You don’t want to make extra efforts in order to find someone who is compatible with you.
You limit your options to the people around you even though you are not able to bond with them well still you don’t look for better options in life.
SETTLING FOR SOMETHING LESS THAN YOU DESERVE:
You think that you don’t deserve someone good or someone who values you just because you feel that you are not that good or you are not worth it that you can have a good partner in your life.
And when you have this thought your mind keeps stressing about this and doesn’t let you fall for someone who is nice or someone who actually values you or respects you. Every person deserves to be in a happy and healthy relationship so never think that you don’t deserve good in life.
YOU BE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT SERIOUS ABOUT YOU:
When we find someone all of us think that they are the one and they are the special someone but sometimes things don’t work out the way we want but still don’t move out of that space as we don’t want to accept the fact that what we thought or what we planned for isn’t right. Love doesn’t happen like this.
It needs time, patience, and respect from both sides equally. So if someone is not that serious about you and you are not able to feel loved being with someone then that person is not the one meant for you so you should not block yourself from being loved by being in a relationship with such a person.
RUNNING AWAY OR BLOCKING WHEN THINGS GET REAL:
Love is something that news your time and patience as it doesn’t happen overnight. Building a relationship needs to invest your emotions, your time, your love, care, etc. When things start to get a bit serious people tend to move out of the relationship as they don’t want to handle the arguments or don’t feel like taking responsibility for something.
Being in a relationship requires you to put in extra effort, and to never give up on each other. Someone who rejects love doesn’t take these responsibilities and just tries to end everything.