YOU FEEL EXHAUSTED AFTER MEETING THEM:
Whenever you meet them you feel tired afterward mentally because you are the one putting in all the effort while conversing, only you try to be empathetic and you are always looking for their validation but really don’t get any as they are not interested in bonding with you. They always drain you out emotionally.
THEY ARE NOT RELIABLE:
A friend in need is a friend indeed. This is something you don’t get to feel in a toxic friendship. You are always available to them but when you need them they always back out. You feel neglected and left out as they don’t share anything with you but they know everything about you.
YOU ARE BEING EXPLOITED EMOTIONALLY:
When you have a toxic friend they fully drain you out emotionally. They keep dumping their troubles on you and always are asking for your help but when you need them to be with you emotionally they really don’t care. If you are not available sometimes then they make you feel guilty about this.
THEY HAVE NO INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR LIFE:
When it comes to your friend or their life you know every single detail about them and you are always aware of the important events in their life. But they don’t pay any attention to any information that you share with them nor they are aware of what is going on in your life.
YOU ARE REMEMBERED ONLY WHEN THEY NEED HELP:
When your friend is facing any adversity or is in unfavorable situations all they need is you to be with them and listen to them and just focus on what they want and say. But they are not ready to do the same for you in case you have some issue at some point of time.
THEY TREAT YOU AS THEIR PUNCHING BAG:
Your friend tries to vent out in front of you and dumps all their issues and troubles on you but they don’t provide you the same space. They always expect you to listen to their emotional issues and provide them with good solutions. They keep on talking about their troubles without considering the fact that you are not able to handle it.